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You’ve found someone who’s caught your attention online and you want your connection to be enhanced when you meet for the first time.
While aspects of biological sex are similar across different cultures, aspects of gender may differ.
For many people, putting together a dating profile is the easy bit (although believe me, there are plenty who find this task nearly impossible).
They even think that chatting in emails or on the phone isn’t so bad either but when it comes to actually going out on a date — the very reason they were online dating in the first place — this is where they panic. They worry they’ll get found out (whatever that means) or that they’ll get tongue-tied and have nothing to say.
Still, if you use a condom and water-based lubricant every time you have anal sex, you'll be cutting the risks. It can, especially if you're tense and not sure you're ready to have it.
If you do feel ready to have anal sex, it's important to use lots of lubrication, to go slowly, and to be clear with your partner about any time you want to slow down or stop.